That's it.
Xu Meiya is a fucking asshole.
A leopard will never change his spots.
I just wish someone had told me the truth about his true personality earlier.. Maybe they did, but I just refused to listen.
Fucking jerk of a tattoo artist.
If I could make a list of what kind of asshole he is, it would be like this:
1. Most fucking ungrateful person I've ever met in my life
- Not only does he treat ALL his ex-es as "free help" or "free labour", he also doesn't bother to show his appreciation. And oh, did I mention that he cannot even ask for favours nicely?
2. Stubborn as a mule x 43983402489204
- Refuses to change despite knowing his mistakes (E.g. Admits that he isn't very tactful with words and his tone; but doesn't bother changing this just so he can keep using this as an excuse to talk to people rudely)
3. Obviously drowning is self-denial
- LOL. The irony of it all is that the fucker LOVES to point out OTHER people's bad points but refuses to accept all the bad things people think about him.
4. Always thinks he is right
- An obvious combination of 2 and 3. He never gives in and will forever be harping on the fact that he is right and other people are wrong. He never wants to lose a quarrel, or even if it isn't really a fight.Wait, this strangely applies to the girl friend or best friend only. His ticket to winning? Cold treatment. LOL. Until you miss him too much or have no choice that you will have to be the first to apologize.
5. A lousy lover
- Can't stress this enough. But Meiya Azumi is a fucking lousy boyfriend. Don't know how to love then don't love please. Do you know that he actually "forgets" about his gf's existence even when she's with him? Ask her to go over to his place and what does he do? Watch movies on his computer, play Facebook games, don't know do what other rubbish and actually IGNORES the fucking fact that the girlfriend is there. Seems like I am not the only ex-gf he does this to. And oh, for the future gf: Please expect that he is going to let go of your hand, leave you there feeling like an extra when he bumps into his friend(s) on the streets.
6. Fucking believes he should be the dominant one in the relationship
- Either you listen, go with his plans or be ignored. You have no choice.
7. Doesn't ask for favours - he FORCES you to do them for him
- The jerk is smart. He doesn't threaten or use force on you; instead, he uses his mouth (omg, suddenly very good with his words hor?) to say things in a way that you are left speechless and with no choice but to say 'ok' to him. Even if you say no, he'll just pretend you didn't say that and continue talking about what he wants you to do until you give up and give in.
8. Judge a book by its cover - this one is as bad as he looks
- Yes, the fucking ah beng looking guy is indeed a fucking bad guy with a lousy heart. Fucking liar from the start. All just sweet-talk at the beginning. He's the kind of guy who falls for a girl easily and loses his interest for her easily. Please, what bullshit about "not looking for girlfriend, looking for someone to settle down with", you can't even commit.
9. Fucking money minded freak
- He says it's for the family and the relationship.. but it seems that those two aren't as important as when it comings to making money. Expect him to forget a movie date or ask you to pay things for yourself because of his obsession with money. When it comes to his 13 Tattoos and Co. shit, he can completely forget about you. It's as though you weren't even in his list of priorities at all. I know money is important and all but for god's sake, what's the point of having money when no one wants to be there for you after you have it?
10. Fucking insensitive
- E.g. Thinks that sex is no big deal (he actually told me that girls who hold on so tightly to one 'tree' and insist on holding on to only that 'tree' are stupid - I mean seriously, WTF? Don't you think it shows that he isn't serious about relationships? Can't believe I just ignored it when he said it man. WTF.) ; is unable to tell when the girlfriend is upset / sad / angry; often comments something crude that hurts the other party (goes back to the e.g used in 2 about "not being tactful enough")
There is obviously more shit I can say about this guy but I'm getting abit lazy now. LOL.
Well, I'm glad that God has removed me from my life; because I obviously do not deserve an asshole like him. But the fucker did have his way and left a permanent scar in my soul.
This was a fucking hard lesson I had to go through to learn that:
- I should never be taken by a man's sweet words next time; bullshit is guaranteed after that
- I should never do sweet little nothings for the next guy I fall in love with -> the fucker will obviously take me for granted
I seriously don't know how am I ever going to trust another fucking man ever again.
And yes, I know what you guys are thinking: "IT'S MY OWN DAMN FAULT FOR TRUSTING THE GUY SO MUCH. THE GUY ISN'T IN THE WRONG."
FUCK YOU SOCIETY.
Why is it that when a man cheats on a woman, the woman is blamed for everything and even called stupid and the guy gets away without being in the wrong at all? Some asses even believe that the guy must be freaking smart or is a role model / hero because he is capable of duping girls into falling in love with them?
And when a woman leaves a man, she's deemed as a bitch _|_
And when a woman has had sex before, she is known as a slut; but when a guy shows off about how many times he has fucked, people assume that he must be good in bed?
This is the reason why GIRLS will FOREVER be on the LOSING end, and never the guys ok? You men don't lose anything.
Fuck you MEN. You guys only think with your penises.
So what now?
Should I be a bitch / slut / whore? :)
P.S And it's true what they say: All good men are married!
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